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What Is Solidarity?
Solidarity is a subject covered in depth across 1 podcast episode in our database. Below you'll find key concepts, expert insights, and the top episodes to listen to — all distilled from hours of conversation by leading experts.
Key Concepts in Solidarity
Perimenopause as a flaming hot fire
Glennon Doyle uses this metaphor, represented by a Venn diagram of menopause, fascism, and herself, to describe the intense and overwhelming experience of her symptoms, feeling like her mind, heart, body, and life are "on fire" (00:00, 02:02).
Shriveled apple doll
This is a self-portrait Glennon uses to convey the profound loss of moisture and vitality she feels, both physically and spiritually, during menopause. It represents a shrunken, dried version of her former self, a loss that extends to her soul (11:15).
Menopause as a culling
Spiritually, Glennon views menopause as a process where the "things that never should have had to tolerate are now officially intolerable." It empowers her to shed situations, people, and cultural engagements that are no longer right for her soul (34:49).
The do not care club
Founded by the 'Madame President,' this club offers a collective space for women to consciously decide what they will no longer care about. It's presented as a liberating response to the burdens placed on women, allowing them to reject societal expectations like wearing "stilts" or "hard pants" (51:13).
What Experts Say About Solidarity
- 1.Perimenopause and menopause symptoms are often extreme and debilitating, going beyond common understanding, as Glennon describes her mind as a "beehive" and skin as a "colony of fire ants with tiny daggers" at night (03:07).
- 2.The medical system is failing women in midlife, with "75% of women never get any treatment at all" for their symptoms (17:26).
- 3.Many doctors are uneducated about menopause, as "only one-third of residency programs in OBGYN" have standardized menopause training despite it affecting half the population for a third of their lives (37:51).
- 4.Societal values play a role, as culture values pregnant women but disregards menopausal women, viewing them as "becoming useless" (26:39).
- 5.The "Do Not Care Club" offers a spiritual culling, helping women refuse to tolerate things that are no longer right for their souls, like wearing "stilts" or "hard pants" (53:13).
- 6.Women often get menopause information from each other, not doctors, because 75% receive no treatment, leading to a conflation of "normal with acceptable" suffering (38:53).